Just an FYI I was able to get just as good of a deal on my 14 than they would give me on the 13's sitting on the lot. I used the consumer reports true car price on the 14 and they could not get the 13 any cheaper so i went with the 14. Other than that either one optioned out the way you want it will be essentially the same truck.

 

I think the main grille may be the tremor style for '14 FX4s, I think I saw this on some but could be wrong

Edit: only on FX4 app pkg

 

I'm also interested in what are the differences between 13 and 14 (specifically with V8 and XLT). One of my options is to 'buy used', and come fall or next year with the release of the '15s, then a 13 might become a good deal again. Well, unless $40+K happens to magically end up in my bank account, I'll have to hold off purchasing for a while (sorry, not interested in leasing, or taking on any additional debt)