I lost my wife to a long fight with cancer. She was a fighter, and she had it beat once, only to come back 6 years later, with a vengence. I miss her, but realize that life does go on.
I'm still driving the truck, and it has over 270K on it's original 4.2 V6, and it's original automatic.
old school maintenance pays off.
I also have a 2011 Mustang that I track once or twice a month. it keeps my mind off of things, and makes me feel a bit young again. That car is a blast!