Fantastic thread. Thank you. I'm trying to help my dad avoid a $650 bill for spark plugs. The only thing missing here is specific plug and tool shopping information, so I thought I'd share what I find. Prices obviously subject to change after today. Moderators, feel free to edit or remove if I've violated forum policy (which I haven't actually found yet).
There are quite a few options, and while which is best was addressed in part in the OP, I'd appreciate any further suggestions.
Amazon
, $61.95 plus shipping
Rock Auto
DENSO Part # 4512 {Platinum TT #PT20TT}
New Platinum Twin-Tip design with Titanium Enhanced Ground Strap, $2.60
AUTOLITE Part # HT1 {PLUGS Platinum; Revolution HT (Rebate/Promotion Available! See Promotions & Rebates Page for Details.)}
Gap .045; REVOLUTION HT is specifically designed for the Ford Triton 3 valve engine design; Optional alternate design
+ Sold in packs of 4; Price reflects cost of each individual item, not the pack, $7.50
AUTOLITE Part # HT15 {PLUGS Platinum; Revolution HT (Rebate/Promotion Available! See Promotions & Rebates Page for Details.)}
OE Style; Gap .045; REVOLUTION HT is specifically designed for the Ford Triton 3 valve engine design; Original equipment design
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+ Sold in packs of {x}; Price reflects cost of each individual item, not the pack, $7.50
DENSO Part # 5326 {Iridium Plug #IT20}
Performance Upgrade With World's Smallest Center Electrode (0.4 mm Dia.) & Tapered Tip Patented U-Groove Design & Patented Ir Alloy (90% Ir), $7.69
MOTORCRAFT Part # SP507 {#PZT14F, PZT2F, PZT2FF4, SP421}
United States; Plug Material: Finewire Platinum; Gap: .045; Type - Standard Service Plg, $8.19
CHAMPION Part # 7989 {DOUBLE PLATINUM POWER; 0.045 Gap (Rebate/Promotion Available! See Promotions & Rebates Page for Details.)}
OE Style
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+ Sold in packs of {x}; Price reflects cost of each individual item, not the pack, $13.97
NAPA has a similar list, but prices are a buck or two higher.